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Not taking sides is super-hard to do, especially if it's a long-standing relationship: internal conflicts are everywhere and as an external consultant you are prone to some degree of venting just because you are "from outside".

In some situations it seemed to me that internal conflicts is how some people spend their entire days at work: they try, sometimes not consciously, to drag you on this or that side of an argument and, while intellectually you know you shouldn't do it, you also know you might appear as less likeable by not taking sides.

I usually repeat myself "Is this true? How do I know this is true?" or "There's another side to this" mantras to avoid the taking-side trap.

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